Anthony Duncan Harding Wilbur, 74, passed away Friday March,2, 2012 at his residence in Spotsylvania, VA. He was born on December 30, 1937, the son of the late Harding and Ruth (Hunter) Wilbur. He was a retired Colonel in the US Air Force. Col Wilbur is survived by his wife of 48 years, Judith B. Wilbur, his two daughters, Andy Wilbur Remeis and her husband Paul, of Boise, ID and Karen Wilbur Penafiel of Centreville, VA, and his four grandchildren, JesseRemeis and Tony, William and CarmenPenafiel. He is also survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Robert and Diane Wilbur of Washington, DC and their daughtersAlwynne Wilbur and Kendall McCumber. Col Wilbur attended Phillips Exeter Academy, Harvard University, and the University of Albuquerque. He received an MBA from the University of Denver. During his career in the Air Force, Tony served as a navigator at McGuire AF Base, NJ; flew the RB-57F for high altitude air sampling at Kirtland AFB, Albuquerque, NM; served a SE Asian assignment in Taiwan; worked as a comptroller at Offutt AFB, Omaha, NE; attended Air War College in Montgomery, AL; and retired after serving in the Office of the Comptroller at the Pentagon, Arlington, VA. Tony lived a life full of a wide range of interests. He built everything from radios, stereos and telescopes to computers. Other passions included sailing, kayaking, photography, shooting, and the stock market. Funeral services will be conducted at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date. Memorial contributions may be sent to NIH specifically noting "Papillary Renal Cell Carcinoma Research", NIH- NCI, 9000 Rockville Pike, Bldg 31, Room 11A16, Bethesda, MD 20892; or tothe Families of the Wounded Fund (FOTWF), c/o Douglass Horstman, 11504 Henegan Pl., Spotsylvania, VA 22551; or to Mary Washington Hospice, 5012 Southpoint Parkway, Fredericksburg, VA 22407. Online condolences may be made at laurelhillfuneralhome.com